From DLSC Litfili edu20 site:
The last two short stories, Manuel Arguilla's How My Brother Leon Brought Home A Wife and Francisco Arcellana's The Mats involve what one might term "traditional" Filipino families. Both were also written before World War II.
Choose at least one of the following writing guidelines for your blog post:
1. Pick out one or more common themes or elements from both stories. Discuss what interests you about this/these themes or elements. Do they still occur/exist in the context of the modern family?
2. Compare and contrast the dynamics or relations between families then and now, or between families of different cultures.
For either topic, you will need to draw on relevant materials, such as news articles, blog entries, online videos, advertising, trends, threads and conversations, etc. to prove your point.
Your opinions and insights are important in the grading of this assignment, but don't forget to cite or link to your sources/references.
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One of the common themes almost always included in Filipino stories just like How My Brother Leon Brought Home A Wife by Manuel Arguilla and The Mats by Francisco Arcellana is the closeness of the Filipino family.
The stories feature families whose members are usually in good or understanding terms with each other. The families usually live under one roof. The parents usually support each other and their children, even when the children are old enough to be independent but are not due to their upbringing. The whole "family first" mentality is a result of the over-reliance of the members of the family with each other.
These things have been happening for such a long time that it has become a part of Philippine culture and has shaped the Philippines; for better or for worse; into what it is now.
Modern Filipino families still practice such behavior, mostly because it is hard-coded into their brains because it is most likely how the leaders of the family, the parents, were raised.
It has a lot of good and bad effects. The obvious good effects being learning to respect and realize the value one's family, and teamwork values. The bad effects are less obvious; the lack of independence of a child resulting in submissiveness, lack of identity, over-reliance, and possible single-mindedness and subservience to the parents, and an ill-journeyed or delayed transition into real adulthood. The "Family first" mentality may even contribute to the Philippines' rampant corruption due to the creation of political dynasties (appointing family members, even if ill-qualified, to political positions) and prioritizing family over the proper and effective governing of an entire country.
I doubt the Filipino mentality regarding family will change anytime soon, so if left unchecked, the Philippines won't change either, for quite some time.
1.http://www.eastwestcenter.org/sites/default/files/private/POPwp10808.pdf -Formal study
2.http://antipinoy.com/failed-family-values/ -A tad extreme but has good points
3.http://countrystudies.us/philippines/41.htm -Includes religion
Supporting articles regarding Philippine political dynasties and corruption:
1.http://carlosconde.com/2007/05/12/family-dynasties-bind-politics-in-philippines/ -New York Times Article
2.http://globalbalita.com/2011/political-dynasties-still-dominate-congress/ -Philippine Star Article
3.http://kuro-kuro.org/archives/5201 -A Filipino blogger's opinions, good insight